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Food can bring Palestinians and Israelis together

April 10th, 2007Ray Hanania (Palestine/USA)

Food is probably one of the safest intersections in the Palestinian-Israeli roadmap.

It’s the thing we both share without the hatred, anger and animosity that seems to characterize everything else we try to share, or control.

It’s the thing that brings us together, eating the exact same food items without even realizing that we are sharing something.

Maybe, we should nominate our Palestinian and Israeli chefs to represent Palestinians and Israelis if the two sides ever come to their senses and return to the peace negotiating table.

Maybe, the next peace table should be set for a 10-course Palestinian-Israeli meal.

The one thing we know for sure is that we can’t call each other names or insult each other the way we continue to insult each other if our mouths are filled with falafel and tabouli and stuffed grape leaves.

This Passover and Easter was a great example of how food can bring the two sides together.

We celebrated both holidays in the Hanania household.

The meal was a conglomerate of Palestinians and Israeli foods.

My wife, Alison, cooked Matzo ball soup, corned beef, gefilte fish with horse radish, and other popular Jewish foods. She even friend Matzo and eggs, which is my favorite breakfast meal in the Hanania household.

I made the traditional grape leaves stuffed with seasoned rice and diced lamb, slow cooked over a layer of Ox tail. And, we roasted a spiced lamb shank.

Of course, we had hummos, crushed garbonzo beans with Tahini (sesame seed sauce), and tabouli (tabouleh), a salad of minced parsley, diced tomatoes, green onions, spices and cracked wheat or burghal.

Now Arabs make tabouli in different ways. I’m not sure how Israelis make it. Many Palestinians I know put diced cucumbers in the mix. Jordanians put less parsley.

The Lebanese drown their tabouli in parsley, without cucumbers. And my guess is that ever since Hezbollah stood its ground on the battle field against the Israel army this past summer, the Israeli people don’t like anything that reminds them of Lebanon.

That’s also something Arabs and Israelis share. We have chips all over the place because our shoulders are so crowded.

Of course, Arabs and Israelis also have one other chip. On their front teeth from eating bizzer. Some swallow the whole salted and baked pumpkin seeds, while other crack the seed open with their teeth and only eat the nut on the inside.

You can tell which Arabs are from which country just by looking at their teeth. The Lebanese have parsley all over their teeth, Jordanians have less, and Palestinians have some parsley with chunks of cucumbers.

Of course, you can also tell who swallows the whole bizzer and who cracks it open based on the chip right smack in the center of their front incisors.

Food can tell us a lot about people.

To me, there is no better table set than one with Matzo ball soup and stuffed grape leaves.

And if we want to negotiate peace, we need to make sure that at the table, all of our foods are represented.

The recent Oscar-winning short film “West Bank Story” was about competing Palestinian and Israeli falafel houses and the problems that start when an Israeli soldier falls in love with a Palestinian girl.

Okay, that might be an issue. Many Jews and Arabs don’t accept or like the fact that I am married to a Jew.

But who cares? The majority of people don’t seem to mind.

So maybe our leaders might take a grape leaf from the pages of this past Passover and Easter, and set the next negotiating table with an array of Arab and Israeli foods.

Let’s sit down and eat together.

We might not agree on peace any time soon, but we certainly can enjoy the divisions a lot better than we do now.

Anyone interested in joining me in my new organization, “Food Now?”

(By Ray Hanania)

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7 Responses to “Food can bring Palestinians and Israelis together”

  1. Ray — its great to have you join us! And you could not be more right about the food issue! I personally like lots of parsley and cucumber in my tabouli. And I eat my pumpkin seeds whole. I think you may be on to something… How can people not come to an agreement during a post-falafel hummus grape leaves tabouli glow?

    Welcome! We can’t wait to hear more from you. For our members/readers who aren’t familiar with your work, will you consider sharing some background on your writing, the comedy tour and yourself sometime soon?

  2. Food Now sounds good :D
    Hi Ray, good to see you here as well ;-)

    I don’t like matzoball soup. On the other hand gefillte fisch is my favorite ashkenazi pesach-food. Btw: don’t you have recipes with amba in it? :D :D

  3. I don’t know much about food in the region (except for tabouli hummus and grape leaves, I tried these). But if I can join you with some tunisian food, I’m sure Tunisian jews would help me to cook good things that I would share with all of you!

    I like it! :)

  4. Not to be a downer but I think a better thing to bring them together would be for Israelis to let all Palestinians visit the land again, as opposed to apolitically inclined gestures.

  5. My wife makes a Jewish food for her Seder called “cholent.” Cholent, as I understand it, is a food that starts cooking the day before the Passover and is ready when Passover is finished, so that Jews can abide by religious laws not to cook during the Pesach.

    We Arabs have something similar to Cholent. A food we cook the night before but eat the next evening. It’s called left overs :)

    Anyway, I hope you enjoy the food joke.

    Thanks
    Ray Hanania
    ww.IPComedyTour.com

  6. One of the best Rosh HaShanah meals I ever had was a baked ham… I’m ready for intercultural feasts! Perhaps I should join the Messianic Jews that Leah wrote about previously.

    And my favorite bible portion? It’s all about setting a table for our enemies…

  7. Hahahahaah….. no Ray, that’s for the Shabbath. Chamien, or otherwise Cholent named is cooked on Friday, left in a warm stove until Shabbath and then eaten.

    Ask your wife :P

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