Sirens of Remembrance

by Miriam (Egypt/Israel/USA)

April 22nd, 2007
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As Israeli Independence Day approaches with all its tensions and contradictions, I sit in sunny New York and think back to what a strange/ugly/beautiful time this was last year. Spring in the Galilee warmed to summer and I learned from my friends, both Palestinian and Jewish, what being a citizen in the Israeli state is all about.

Independence Day in Israel is preceded by two important memorial days, Holocaust Remembrance Day and The Day of Remembrance for honoring those soldiers who died defending their country. For most of the time I was growing up, for myself and the majority of Americans Memorial Day equaled barbeques and a welcome long weekend. Now that so many US soldiers have fallen in the Bush Administration’s war on Iraq, perhaps we can begin to appreciate the solemnity of such a day for a nation like Israel which has a citizen army and compulsory draft for every 18-year-old. In a country where almost every Jewish Israeli citizen is, has been, or will be part of the Israeli Defense Forces, honoring the lives lost for the sake of the nation precedes any thought of celebration.

Holocaust Remembrance Day similarly honors those who lost their lives during WWII and enacts the famous edict “Yizkor,” remember. Remember what it is like to be powerless, to be reviled and hated, and remember so you never find yourself in the shoes of victim, or oppressor. At its best, Holocaust Remembrance Day is an exhortation to the Jewish people and the peoples of the world to remember they are first and foremost human, and therefore have an obligation to uphold the humanity of others.

On both Holocaust Day and Memorial Day at 10:00am all over Israel, sirens are rung and for a minute each citizen stops what they are doing to pay tribute to the dead. Last year, I was preparing an English lesson in the offices of Women Against Violence, an NGO that serves Palestinian women in Israel, when I realized it was time for the siren, or tzfirah.

“Hey everyone, isn’t it time for the siren?” I asked my friends in the office. The secretary barely looked up from her work.

“We don’t observe this tradition,” she told me.

“But it’s for all citizens,” I said.

“Why don’t you go out to the balcony, Mimi,” another coworker told me. “See if you can hear it.”

At 10:00am sharp I was out on our balcony, watching the woman who lives in the house next door hanging her laundry. I waited, and waited. It seemed that there was a clothes-washer running as well, because I could hear a faint buzzing. Finally, I went back into the office.

“Maybe the sirens are late?” I asked. The secretary stepped outside with me.

“That’s it. I hear it, can’t you?” she said. We listened. And I realized that the faint hum of the “clothes-dryer” was actually the sirens.

Now, every town in Israel has sirens hooked up in case of an emergency. The running of the sirens on the two commemorative holidays leading up to Independence Day also serve as test-runs for this critical PA system…a system that is all but non-existent in non-Jewish areas. This seemed odd to me on that day, but I thought nothing of it.

That is, until the war with Hezbollah began two months later. I was substitute-house-mother at the halfway house for Palestinian teenage girls one of the first nights that there was shelling near Nazareth. We listened anxiously for the “booms” of katyusha missiles landing, wondering where they were, and how far. There were no sirens.

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In the office of Women Against Violence, we developed an alternative way to find out if we might be in danger. The mother of one of the coordinators had a house on the border of Nazareth (al-Nasireh) and the Jewish neighborhood of Upper Nazareth (Natzeret Illit). Whenever she heard the sirens in the Jewish area, we’d get a call at the office letting us know that we should stay in the rooms with the fewest windows.

But this system wasn’t foolproof. On July 19th, I was alone in the office when a series of missiles hit Nazareth, killing several children and throwing the city into panic. And there were no sirens. That day marked the last time anyone in Nazareth would use the phrase “binaqu adas” (sorting lentils) to describe the way that Hezbollah’s missiles “knew” where the Arabs were living in Israel and would not harm them.

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I wonder, after Israeli Channel 2 newscaster Oded Ben Ami’s expose of the state of sirens and shelters in Palestinian areas of Israel, if there were sirens ringing loudly through those streets on this year’s Holocaust and Memorial Days. I wonder how people reacted in Nazareth and other Palestinian towns, what they did to reconcile their own identity with that of a self-proclaimed Jewish state when that call to stand up and be counted rang in their ears.

PS: For a documentary look at how mixed communities negotiate Independence Day, the film “First Lesson In Peace” focuses on how the Arab-Jewish school in Neve Shalom/Wahat Al-Salam deals with Yom Ha’atzmaut/Yawm al-Nakba. Another related piece of recommended reading is the short story “Ha-Tzfirah” (The Siren) by Etgar Keret.

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Yaman S (Syria & USA)

April 22, 2007

Miriam, I commend you for drawing attention to the second-class position of Arabs in Israel.

Yoni

April 22, 2007

A sad day today,Yom Ha’Zikaron commemorates the approx 22,500 Israelis who fell defending the Land of Israel since the 1860s .For those in Israel the siren goes off for 2minutes at 11AM (GMT+3) today.(Israel,Jordan and other countries are now on Daylight Saving Time)

And tonight starts Yom Ha’atzmaut

michelle

April 22, 2007

Miriam, thanks for sharing this with us. I live in Israel for the past 14 years. I remember what Memorial day was like growing up in the USA. Just as you described– a picnic, holiday, more sales, shop shop shop… The deep meaning of it all here is difficult. I am thankful that I have not lost anyone close to me in war, but still as a human I empathize with the stories of others, as I am sure any open hearted human would, be they Palestinian, Arab or Western or Chinese, etc. Last night for example, I watched a heart wrenching documentary made by a woman who was in her mother’s womb when her father was killed in the ‘67 war. Five years later a brother was killed and later another brother…..and she was raised by a mother who refused to share memories or speak of the past— yet her soul was struggling to hear about her lost family. I think anyone would cry watching this. It’s the human condition.
Another thought: growing up as a secular jew in the USA I witnessed as an outsider various Christian events and rituals. It is commendable to learn from other people’s customs and traditions– without it becoming an ego problem. This is how we grow in respect and tolorance of humankind. It served to help me feel closer to christian people.
The Arabs that I have questioned here in Israel say they are very satisfied with their lives here. Perhaps it’s a small sampling…. but I was glad to hear this from them.

Nadia (Canada and Iraq)

April 22, 2007

I know a few african and Iraqi jews that were quite unhappy with their lives in Israel unfortunately that’s why they don’t live there.

Miriam (Egypt & Israel & USA)

April 22, 2007

Hey all, thanks for the comments. As an addendum, I got this in my mailbox from Brit Tzedek V’Shalom and I think it’s very well-written and relevant:

By Rabbi Ellen Lippmann, Rabbinic Cabinet

Tonight sirens will sound across Israel calling the nation to a moment of collective reflection and sorrow for Yom HaZikaron, Israel’s Memorial Day, When the country was established, Israel’s leaders were determined to link Yom HaZikaron to Yom HaAtzmaut, as the sun sets on Yom HaZikaron, Yom HaAtzmaut begins, and slowly, Israelis begin their Independence Day celebrations.

I love counting the Omer. This simple ritual that helps us count from Pesach to Shavuot– from freedom to responsibility – grounds me in those intervening weeks, reminding me that while Pesach and Shavuot are peak moments in our calendar, each and every day, each and every effort, counts. I am struck that the Omer count is the umbrella under which so much else takes place: ordinary days a-plenty, but also most of Pesach, Yom HaShoah, Yom HaZikaron and Yom HaAtzmaut.

Throughout these days in which we celebrate freedom, mourn our people’s greatest tragedy, remember fallen soldiers and celebrate the independence of the State of Israel, we are also counting, night after night, day after day. As we count, we can imagine the Shoah’s victims counting the days to deportation or barely imaginable freedom; the families of fallen Israeli soldiers counting the minutes after hearing the news of their loved one’s death; the Israelis of 1948 counting the seconds until they heard the good news of independence.

As we move toward Yom HaZikaron and Yom HaAtzmaut this year, we have so much sorrow to count: The numbers injured and killed in last year’s war with Lebanon; the young women harmed in what became the Israeli presidential sex scandal; victims of official corruption; victims of rockets and bombs.

And as we count, we can’t ignore the mounting suffering of Palestinians having their homes demolished, watching their olive groves – and livelihoods – uprooted by the route of the security barrier, experiencing lengthy checkpoint waits, struggling with growing poverty, and more. How will we find hope or joy as we count to this year’s Yom HaAtzmaut?

Significantly, at Yom HaAtzmaut, many greet friends and family with the words “moadim l’simkhah” (happy season), the greeting traditionally giving during the intermediate days of Pesach and Sukkot. Expressed at Yom HaAtzmaut, it seems to imply that this day – despite much joy – is no full festival, whose appropriate greeting would be hag sameach (happy holiday). Further, the traditional response to this Yom HaAtzmaut greeting is l’geulah shleimah (to a complete redemption) – surely the joy of Yom HaAtzmaut cannot be complete until the hoped-for geulah shleimah has arrived.

Can it arrive when so much is so wrong in the state we love so well? How many changes would have to take place to bring about that time of true redemption, a time when the dual observances of Yom HaAtzmaut and al Nakba (the Palestinian Catastrophe) are blended into a harmonious end, a joint tale of two independent and secure states?

How many days and nights would we have to count to move from this isolated happy, not-quite-a-festival season, to that longed-for complete redemption? I suggest we let the Omer counting serve as a reminder and a model: Even in our most desperate moments, we must not forget that there is still hope, that there are many who continue to make the enormous effort that peace requires. Perhaps we should begin on Yom HaAtzmaut this year, the 5th of Iyar, counting not measures of grain as with the Omer, but efforts toward redemptive peace. We can begin by counting from the first day of Iyar, Rosh Hodesh and count – along with our Omer — to the 5th day, Yom HaAtzmaut:

Count one for the first round of talks between Israeli Prime Minister Ehud Olmert and Palestinian Authority President Mahmoud Abbas with a second round already planned during the second half of May with Secretary of State Condoleeza Rice.

Count two for H Res. 143 introduced by Congressional Rep. Susan Davis (D- CA), calling on President Bush to appoint a special envoy for Middle East peace in order to return Israelis and Palestinians to the negotiating table.

Count three for the the Arab League’s unanimous endorsement of the Saudi Arabian peace initiative at their March meeting, which proposes a general Arab peace agreement with Israel in exchange for a two-state solution to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. Just this week, Israeli Prime Minister Olmert said: “I’m ready to accept the Saudi initiative as a basis for discussions with the Palestinians, together with the Saudis.”

Count four for Syrian peace overtures, diplomatic indication that the Syrians themselves are willing to take the first step toward peace with Israel.

And finally, count five for Brit Tzedek, which celebrates its fifth anniversary this month. Five years of hard work and dedicated hearts have made an enormous impact on the Jewish American scene. In 2002, those of us who would seek peace with the Palestinians felt isolated and silenced, but in no small part due to the efforts of Brit Tzedek, we now know that we are part of a growing group of Jewish Americans who have understood that to be pro-peace is to truly be pro-Israel. Congratulations to Brit Tzedek, and to all of us who are involved. Yeshar koah!

Surely we can all think of more signs of hope, and keep this count going.
How should we count?

Begin by reading or singing Psalm 122:6-7 in English or Hebrew:

Pray for the well-being of Jerusalem;
May those who love you be at peace.
May there be peace within your walls,
Equanimity within your enclosures.

Add this prayer, adapted from The Book of Blessings, by Marcia Falk:

Nish’al mei-ain ha-shalom
Let us request of the source of peace?

For nothing is whole
that is not first rent

and out of the torn
we make whole again.

May we live with promise
in creation’s lap,

redemption budding
in our hands.

Then say, “This is the first (second, third…) night of the count toward geulah shleimah, complete redemption in Israel. May redemption bud in my (our) hands.”

To make that last phrase real, make a donation to and/or volunteer your time for an organization working for peace.

Od yavo shalom aleinu
Salaam, aleinu v’al kol ha-olam
Salaam, shalom

Peace will yet come to us
Peace: on us and on the entire world
Peace, peace

Suggestions for Yom HaZikaron and Yom HaAtzmaut:

Light a yarhtzeit candle (long-burning candle in a glass used for mourning) and hold a minute of silence in honor of Yom HaZikaron at gatherings of friends, family or Brit Tzedek members. End with something celebratory, perhaps sharing memories of positive attachments to Israel.
Make a call to the Parents’ Circle – Families Forum Peace Hotline and/or share the hotline information with friends and family. Given that this group is made up of individuals who have lost loved ones in the conflict and “have chosen to channel their grief into the pursuit of reconciliation and tolerance, rather than to look for a path of revenge and further bloodshed,” it is an appropriate way to mark Yom HaZikaron. The hotline offers Americans the chance to call individual Israelis and/or Palestinians. For more information go to: http://www.hellopeace.net/callusa.htm
Hold a ceremony between Yom HaZikaron and Yom HaAtzmaut. You might choose to excerpt one or two poems or readings or use the entire ceremony written by Brit Tzedek Rabbinic Cabinet member Rabbi Rebecca Lillian. Be sure to edit the materials to reflect that this year is the 59th anniversary of Israel’s independence.
Participate in community celebrations of Yom HaAtzmaut, including your local “Walk for Israel,” wearing Brit Tzedek buttons and t-shirts. Show your community that you stand with them in support of Israel, even though you may have an alternative vision of what it means to be pro-Israel. For more information about acquiring Brit Tzedek paraphernalia, please write to info@btvshalom.org.
Gather together with a hevruta (study partner) or better yet, a group of people, to discuss Israel’s Declaration of Independence. Use this time as an opportunity to connect with the ideals of the founders of Israel, to share what those ideals mean to you, and to recommit to fulfilling the dream by supporting efforts in Israel that move it toward justice and peace.
Rabbis for Human Rights in Israel has created Masechet Haatzma’ut, a Talmudic style commentary on the Declaration of Independence, which can be used to guide such discussions. RHR’s discussion questions include: How has this vision of the founders of Israel inspired me? In what ways does it reflect my vision of Israel and in what way is it different from my own? How did the authors of the Declaration envision creating a state that is at one and the same time a Jewish state yet also a state that affords equality to all its citizens? How can we build a state that is both Jewish and democratic? What am I prepared to do over the coming year to help fulfill the vision of a state that is based on freedom, justice and peace, as envisaged by the prophets of Israel?

Esra'a

April 22, 2007

Great stuff Miriam thanks a lot for sharing.

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