It is very easy to dismiss an act from afar, to forget that it takes place, and to react with indifference. It is even easier when you never have to deal directly with the people who are affected by this. On Mideast Youth, it is very hard to ignore issues that we are facing on a daily basis. We have people representing various countries who are each experiencing conflicts and injustices on various levels and to varying degrees. It is because of this that we are able to confront each other, people who represent different sides of these issues, and ask tough questions of one another.
Esra’a and I have recently been discussing an article which we found to be very distressing and unfortunately also very indicative of what many Palestinians have gone through and continue to go through. This particular incident, although by far not the worst, is something we feel most people can relate. It is about a Palestinian family who worked tremendously hard to build a home for themselves, their children and their elderly parents. However, instead of a sanctuary, it turned out to be an even more effective base from which the Israeli army could observe Nablus. They have had to endure their private property being raided, their privacy violated while having neither the power nor the support to change it.
In the past, we have rarely had the opportunity to directly confront an Israeli and ask, “How do you feel about this?”
We understand that many people, Palestinians, Israelis and the international community are sick of talking about this conflict and are sick of all the associations people make that are so dependent on nationality and religion. But this is important. We cannot go on ignoring what is really happening merely to feed other people’s interest or out of fear of being labelled anti-Semitic or a supporter of terrorism.
People ask us all the time whether we condemn the attacks of the suicide bombers and the anti-Semites. And we do. So why, more often than not, when we ask the same of the attacks against the Palestinians we are confronted with the same response… Security? Why are criticisms of the actions of the Israeli government completely undermined by the incessant accusation of anti-Semitism?
So we ask you, how do you feel about this as a human being? Where do you stand on this? Is there any moral justification for the quartering of soldiers in a private home? We hope that this post will not be misinterpreted or be taken as offensive. We believe that this is a legitimate question that demands answers, if we are to ever find an acceptable alternative.
We share this platform for a reason, other than it being a place for us all to co-exist, it is also our duty to confront one another about these realities. As hard as these realities are for us to deal with and discuss, they are even harder for those who have to live it.
Escaping reality is rarely productive, there are some things that we must face. This conflict is one of them. Allow us to move on from pointing fingers, we each already have our own ideas and instead allow us to move on to the real issues, what is happening in reality right now so that we can work together to achieve the only thing that is needed and deserved, a solution. Share with us your opinions, your feelings, the way we are sharing it with you right now. Allow us to understand your stance. We hope this thread will lead to a more productive dialogue.

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Tamara, I was born in Israel, but left there when I was seven years old. My family goes back in Israel some 200 years. The parents of my grandmother were one of the first sixty families to found the city of Tel-Aviv. And I do love Israel, in many ways, and for many reasons.
You ask if it is just for the Israeli army to occupy an innocent Palestinian family’s home for security reasons? No, it is not just. Some may consider it necessary in the name of self-defense, but it is certainly not an example of justice.
Here’s the thing, Tamara. There will be no justice, until a just solution is found. If justice is what you want, then you have no choice but to bring justice to Israelis and to Palestinians, because justice is what they both deserve and what they both need.
In my heart, I fervently believe, based on everything I know about Israelis, that given half a chance, they could be convinced to buy into a just solution, including a compromise on Jerusalem, on settlements, on refugees, on borders, and all the rest. I believe this because I know Israelis to be peace loving people. I believe this because I know the offer that Clinton and Barak put on the table in the year 2000. I also believe that Israel could be used to revitalize the stagnant economies of the Middle East, which in and of itself, will also bring a good measure of justice.
What I am not sure of, is whether the Palestinian people as a whole, are ready to give up the idea of destroying Israel, for the sake a peace and justice. I am not saying this out of anger. I am saying it simply because groups like Hamas make it very clear, on a daily basis, that they are intent on destroying the Jewish State. And their influence seems to be stifling the wishes of the people on the street who secretly yearn for the peace and justice that you so rightly speak of.