Are Arab women satisfied IN BED?
May 19th, 2009there is a big problem and i don’t thing oneday any writer wrote anything like this article they might consider it as forbidden talk or something its impolitely to speak about it but what im talking about is problem and this problem harming many women around the Arab word …the problem that the Arabs men are not good enough in bed with their wives or girlfriends because the lack of sexual education which still consider as forbidden in schools and forbidden from the parents to talk about it to her or to him and in this way they bury their natural instinct …. we have two problems the guys cant satisfy women and women don’t know how to satisfy their husbands and in final we facing cheating problem from one of them or both…..and the other problem we having here that women cant tell their husband that i still away of the orgasm and you have to improve your way and this is called selfishness but women cant say that because some husbands cant accept this and that’s mean he is not man enough…its really complicated issue but what i wrote is nothing about this social problem
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Do you think people like Ms. Kutb are the solution to the problem? She seems to be overt and frank about sexual matters while maintaining the more conservative social stance that society dictates.
dear the people just need to learn how to satisfy their girls and the other problem that people hate reading …..
i am a psychological counseler based in the gulf and in my ten yrs. of practise here with mostly female clients, i can confirm that there is a lot of sexual pervertness and dissatisfaction here. many females complain of lack of sexual pleasure from their husbands,boyfriends and lovers. Many of them are not sexually satisfied but cannot tell their husbands and lovers that since it would be considered unmanly and a deep personal insult to the ego of that man. A very few who have told or tried to tell where severely beaten and accused of being pervert or nymphomaniac. Some of them were divorced and sent back in shame to their families. i think the problem is mostly cultural and religious. Even many educated gulf arabs females suffer from this problem. They are trapped in a loveless marriage and cannot confront their husbands and lovers. and many men here would consider that as their being impotent, a big insult here. Many of the females, shockingly mostly married, confessed to me how they wanted to take another secret lover but it is a very big risk. Not all females who are unsatified have affairs but sadly most do. The danger of being discovered and punished does not really offset the chances taken by such females. Most upper class and rich women travel abroad to europe and go for a sexual spree—if they are really rich, they pay and retain handsome and fit young italian and french lovers. if they are just so-so rich, they tip some modest or even handsome amount to a young bellboy in the hotel they are staying at, and experience sexual relief which their husbands could not provide. The not so rich who cannot travel abroad, either find shelter within their own sex (that explains why there is so much lesbianism here) or just make do with fantasy sex (masturbation). The very few who do have affairs which is a very big risk, is within their families, ie. male cousins, brother in laws, a divorced male co-worker etc. I have many female clients for example in their early or mid fourteez who have affair with their 12 or 14 yr old male nephew or one of his friends or have a lesbian affair with one of her sister in laws etc. This is very sad and even more ironic that most of these females are educated and come from for the most part well to do families but since their men either out of intense ego and/or stone aged traditions and cultures cannot accept their impotence and force their females to suffer psychologically and emotionally.
thank you very much you said what exactly i want to say ……its really big problem and most people don’t admit it. and the technology here playing role in this issue since we got the satellites channels and sex become the most primary issue for people and unfortunately the Arabs abused the technology the technology changed the people thinking and made anew generation a generation suppose to be better . and we here talking about all Arabs girls not only in gulf….sex is instinct and you cant stop this instinct but we need to know how and when and with whom we going to use it with not like animals.and i really advice to stop the traditional marriage because after the wedding when they they live alone everyone gradually will find out the other mentality and its big problem if the both characters are not fit to each other and here they start the conflict and consequences of this marriage is dangerous sometimes what the Arab world need is love and open minded mentality …i don’t know how two peoples don’t know anything about each other life want to get married and living in same house…
Your name is Mohammed, means you are Muslim… right?
Listen Mohammed.. So many people wrote about this before, and they are wrong and you are wrong also, we are Muslims we don’t do sex with girlfriends.. OK? this is one thing that you should know if you don’t!
Second .. there is nothing called Arab Men, the problem is not a problem of a nation as you are claiming, and I am sorry but you didn’t get it good in this post.
I know so many Arabs married with non-Arabs women, and their wives have a different opinion than yours!
I believe that in every country in this world there women says that men are not good in bed in their country
don’t put too much attention to them, just do your job man!
dear
what im talking about is our country opinion of women and there is no different between Jordan and the other Arab countries ….i don’t say all the men are same and not good on bed but the majority are … and man is not the only responsible about the bad sex and women are responsible for that as well because they don’t know and they don’t confess to their husbands and about girlfriend for sorry dear we have a lot here having girlfriends and do sex as husband and wife but this is not the big issue the issue here is the technical of sex is what we lacking in Arab worlds because believe me there is a lot of men don’t know that wife has to get orgasm as he do and he thing woman is just sex machine and he can do sex when ever he want and he think the woman is satisfied and this makes the women un satisfied and hating the sex with their husbands and the big problem if she met some man who can give her the satisfaction in this case its so normal that she is married and having lover in same time dear…its complicated issue and its problem we must confess about it and trying to fix it by opening a sex education centers because good sex means good mood and long life…
Oh, so this is the Jordanian women opinion about Arab men?!
OK, I got it now! I know there so lots of problem regarding this issue, but did you get men opinion about Arab women?
As a man I can say the same also about Arab women! got it?
@ “My Life Thinking”
A study report says 90% of Egyptian women never reach orgasm with their Egyptian husbands. Many married Egyptian women didn’t even know what orgasm is, or that they can enjoy it
Source (Arabic): Al-Arabiyya
ذكرت أن الكثير من الأزواج ليس عندهم فكرة عنها
دراسة: “رجفة” فراش الزوجية غائبة عن 90% من المصريات
http://www.alarabiya.net/articles/2008/10/23/58795.html
It’s actually called “Nashwa” (literally: Orgasm) not “Rajfa” (literally: Shake).
Mainstream Arab men (I’m not going to say all Arab men) need to quickly snatch their heads out of the gutter and to stop and think twice before considering women a cup where they deposit their semen…
@ Madmax
Heba Qutb generally is OK, even though she’s a social and religious conservative herself… I don’t like all her (conservative) opinions, yet, she had been frequently criticized and attacked by even-more-conservative conservatives
She’s actually quite closed minded in at least a few subjects I’ve seen/read/heard her talk about. So much for someone who got their higher education in the US… heh
its bad to know this statistics in Egypt and this issue will makes people not satisfied at all because sex is important and healthy and science said if you have 200 orgasm in one year you will live long time….i suggest that Arabs country teaching the sex education in schools its not to be shy of its instinct to enjoy it not to hide it and people must open their mind and have to know this education. and its free enjoyment …but really its tragedy to find this problem hidden and no one trying to talk about it or try to fix it……..
@ Jasmine, Mohammed Alabed
You have both said that people need to learn to please their wives and so on (which makes sense given the data you provided). However, the problem seems to be that there is a dearth of willingness to discuss sex related topics due to the more conservative nature of Arab society. If Heba Qutb pleases neither moderates nor hyper-conservatives what sort of people or methods could serve as an instrument of change? It seems that people are unwilling to discuss such things unless they feel it is done in an appropriate manner.
I’m a long time reader and first time poster, thought I add my two cents.
This of course isn’t just a problem in the Middle East, this of course is a problem basically everywhere. For the most part I agree that it is a complicated issue. If women aren’t feeling satisfied it’s probably because they know how to communicate their needs. Sure men need to learn to satisfy women, but it is also the woman’s responsibility to communicate what her sexual needs are. That’s why it is important for people to be able to discuss sex openly and in an honest manner. Therefore, both men and women can communicate their sexual needs. I also think it’s unfortunate that people feel that have to seek sexual pleasure outside of their relationship.
that’s right its problem everywhere but its too much here in middle east ….but from my opinion men and women must read and ask about these things because its very important to make love and get kids and you are satisfied on bed because the kid will come healthy ……the problems with Arabs they are close minded and feeling shy even to start the sex topic and they must liberate their selves and get out of the jail they putting their selves in it…
dear the people just need to learn how to satisfy their girls and the other problem that people hate reading …..
you right dear…
reading and reading is most think people have to do….
Ilhamdilah i dont have that problem.
we have to open our mind and see the world from another perspective.
I am an american and have been married for 25 years, every time my wife and I have sex I make it a point that she orgasms once or twice even if I only cum once, it is such a good feeling to have a woman orgasm either oral or traditional or even by fingers, I think the vagina is very sexy as well as nipples and anus, the taste the smell the feel, I know many men that just cum first and that is it but the woman should speak out and if he does not listen dump him and find a man that can give as well as receive. the so called third world people are so at times self centered and men in general cannot find it within them to be gentle and feel a woman experience every part of her body, I think a womans body is a treasure and to explore every part is amazing, it is always new, cumming or orgasms seem to feel real good but the foreplay I believe is the satisfaction and hearing her body get moan and get hard and her vagina tighten up around the penis or finger and the moistness smell is wonderful and they miss out on all the pleasure. Truly I think middle eastern woman are so attractive what lucky spots those arabs are to have woman that they should enjoy and allow them to enjoy sex.
i agree with greg……but we still have that problem which is talking about sex orgasm and women feel shy to ask her husband or her boyfriend for more ….women must find out someway to tell the other partner on bed that she is not yet satisfied without feeling shy because its her right ……..
Hi,
The discussion is very warm; I thought I should contribute something. I am David from England and lived in Saudi Arabia for 4 years. I worked as a doctor. In my very first month in KSA, I came across a female patient who had psychological issues. After having some discussion with her, I reached to the conclusion that she was not happy in her marital life. I knew the culture and was afraid to tell her the real cause. I prescribed some medicines and asked her to see me again in a week. She was young and very gorgeous. When she came for the next meeting, I asked some questions regarding her sexual life, she was shy in the beginning but then told me everything. Finally, we agreed to meet at a hotel. She came on time and we talked for a while; her English was very week but I could understand. I then gradually started to feel her body, kissed her ears, went down. I got the feeling that her husband never kissed her boobs. She had perfect boobs and butt. She was amazed when I started to lick her pussy………… she enjoyed it a lot and reached orgasm in just 1 minute. She said she never had that feeling in the bad with her buddy. I then told her that it was my turn and she was ready to satisfy me although she did not know what I wanted. I asked her to suck me, she was shy but started it and was perfect sucker. In the mean time she was turned on again and asked me to fuck her. I started fucking her and released her load in 10 minutes. I was not yet done. I asked for anal and she became ready after some discussion………. You wont believe but she was anal virgin and enjoyed the very first anal sex. When then met every week for a couple of hours. She also introduced 10 other girls. I quit my job a couple of years back but visit the country at least twice a year. Please let me know on david_wnyk@yahoo.com if you have any questions. Best Regards, David
about David….there is a lot of women have the same problem in arab world….people with the new technology and internet are not stupid anymore i guess specially the sexual issues there is a lot of channels and alot of sex websites and people of arab countries specially the men dont recognize that the woman have orgasm and she want that orgasm as men want it as well…..people now have awareness about sex and know much than the people in past……..so sexual education in schools is very important….
first of all this thread completely sucks….2nd muslims doesnt have sex with boyfreinds or girlfreinds its completely haram in islam..3rd lol i wonder which arab girls go to europe and hire italian and french mens for sex? even if any rich girl from gulf arabic family goes to europe she wont go alone she will defently follow atleast 1 adult man along with her who will be either her brother or dad or husband or uncle thats it…soo mrs simran ahmed i dont know ur really a muslim or not but surely wat u say just completely bull shit got it? last and finally lol i am born in gulf and as for david no saudi man will allow his sister , mother , daughter or wife to meet a doctor personally …2nd even if u met her personally u cannot meet her in hotel its soo simple because when u hire a hotel room u need to show ur identity card and in any hotel in ksa if any women enters it without any man she will be questioned ….soo in both ways ur completely wrong btw ur non muslim u just want to make the name of islam bad and muslim girls saying they are in reality filthy bitches and they just pretend to cover themselves and pretend to be modest…. and 1 thing more even i dont think mohammed alabed ur muslim too may be ur jewish or christian..u guys just making use of media and this and that to disgrace islam and humiliate muslim girls and mens and stop other non muslims from converting to islam by making the name of islam bad…well dont worry you guys ISLAM IS THE WORLD FASTEST GROWING RELEGION AND ACCEPT THE TRUTH…
damot
you go so far from the topic we discussing here …you cant deny there is a muslim girls living with men as boyfriend and girlfriend and religion is not our topic so we discussing here a human issue whatever its Muslim ,Christian,Jew or whatever ……its simple issue and need your opinion about this issue only…thanx for the sharing…PEACE
Damot, I am sorry if I have hurt your feelings. I have just shared my personal experience with the readers and I am honest in that. I don’t know how they get out of their homes and get involved in sexual relationships. Furthermore, I agree with Mohadded Aaladed that this is not a religious discussion nor cultural. We are disucssing a human issues and want to address it. You can resolved problems by keeping them hidden. Regarding how did I get the woman in my hotel; you know money works. You are aware how Israel was born….. the land was purchased from arabs using bundles of money……………Now u know how it works…
i agree with david …..its human issue and i like to tell abed that the Arab did not sale the lands and this information is very wrong …the Israelis with the UK help they established the state of israel…anyway this is not our discussion too…..PEACE
It’s interesting to follow this thread, however the lady’s story is missing here. I’m not Arab women, but I do have an Arab boyfriend, so I can tell soth. about it. (Damot, sorry to reveal the truth, that Arabs, at least those living in Europe do have girlfriends and boyfriends, and most of them have no problem with extramarital sex).
My boyfriend is very tender, loving and faithful, and he claimed not be a virgin when we first meet (he is 28), but the truth is, that I had to teach him everything about woman’s body, erogenal zones and ways of satisfying me. He also has some sorts of resistance towards sex during a period or cunnilingus. As far as I know, the first one might be the resemblance of islamic views on sex, but from what I know, oral sex is not forbidden by Islamic law (contrary to anal sex), yet, he is not so eager to perform it for me. That’s why I am almost 100% sure, that David story about Arab wife, who had her pussy licked for the first time, and was an anal virgin is truth. Yet, I think it’s slightly unethical, to seduce his patient, since he was a doctor…
To conclude, I assume that Arab women have moral restraints to express their sexual needs, and therefore stay unsatisfied. The solution is sexual education ofcourse, but also encouraging openness in relationship, and increasing woman’s self-esteem, which leads to more awareness of their needs.
PEACE:-)
Suzane, thanks for you nice comments. I do agree that I committed something unethical but if you look at the reality, you will agree with what I did. The patient actually got perfectly well after that treatment because I know what she needed. She came again quite often especially for the anal and oral experience. And she also brought a few other women for the same treatment. What I advise here to the Arab guys is not to have a number of wives but to satisfy the one. You should also bear in mind that Arab women are really gorgeous and sexy. I cant wait for longer without having a nice Arab beauty with me in the bed. I do have relationships with Arab girls in UK and a few Arab countries. I enjoy to be with them and they enjoy my 10″ device in all of their holes. Still, I will never talk about any one of them as I know the consequences for them. You can talk to me on david_wnyk@yahoo.com if you like.
Best, David
david, you wat i dont belive wat u say neither anyone will belive wat u say its simple dude like i said u any girl going out and going to hotel and being there and none of her family members questions her and ask her where she was , where she went , and no one even suspects her… dude like i said this is all bullshit to humiliate muslims girls and islam do u got it? and like u want to know i am NOT ARAB i am from the same race which all europeans and white people belong i am..and lol wat u mean they enjoy ur 10″ device? lol mate most of ur american and europeans girls date with Black mens and most of uk girls date to pakistani mens….for example princess diana had realtionship with a pakistani guy lol….and regarding mentioning about ur 10″ device lol ..wats ur point in it? so if the longer the device is it mean that person is a REAL MAN? well lol i wonder y u westerners have such less population even though most of u ppl produce childrens both before and after marraiges lol… in our society the real man is a man WHO HAVE A BIG HEART…and even mentioning about ur 10′ device lol… afghani mens are known to have the huge devices lol hahaha and in 1 vs 1 they can kick anyone ass..and lol china and india have huge population soo i think their mens are very FERTILE haha….and one last thing WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT THAT GIRL COMING AND HAVE SEX WITH U MANY TIMES EVEN INTROUDCING HER 10 FREINDS LOL…..ITS JUST A BULLSHIT..IF SO THEN WHY DONT YOU POST HER PHOTO OR HER PHONE NUMBER…i bet u if u can..but i know u will simply escape by making some BULLSHIT excuse..and like i said this whole thread is just a BULLSHIT…arabs womens are not satisfied by their mens ….how the fuck do u know all this? its just a crap bullshit to disgrace muslims womens and mens…and encrouge muslims mens to watch porn soo that they can satisfy their wives…so it simply means move muslims from their islamic path make them watch porn and have sex … even illegemate sex and there by humiliate islam and all muslims and hence stop islam from spreading…hey hey david 1 question dude WHY MOSTLY EUROPEANS ARE CONVERTING TO ISLAM DAY BY DAY?and one last word to ARAB IS A COMMUNITY ISLAM IS A RELEGION…MISH3AL IS A NAME IS ARABIC MEANING LAMP ARAB MUSLIMS KEEP IT AND SO DO ARAB NON MUSLIMS..BUT IF A PERSON NAME MIS3AHL DOES SOMETHING BAD THE MEDIA WILL REPRESENT HIM AS A MUSLIMS SIMPLY BCOZ HE IS ARAB AND HIS NAME IS ARABIC THATS JUST A BULLL CRAP SHIT….soo mohammed aladel i really dont know who u are but probably surely ur a non arab muslim….
@suzane–well well i know that since david lived in ksa and i even know the americans in usa and europeans and jews all know that anal is not allowed in islam bcoz thats the propogandao going around in media as being played by the great JEWS who control u christians too lol…suzan i too know many things about bible like the famous verse of JOHN 3:16…and many things like every year ur bibles gets updated lol which simply means its not the book from god…and ur bible if filled with the stories of children of israel…soo wat david said was simply bring up some stroy and disgrace muslim women and he only choosed saudi women bcoz saudi womens are know to cover themselves the most in world and the main point it SAUDI ARABIA IS THE LAND OF PROPHET PBUH AND THE BASIC ISLAMIC COUNTRY FOR ALL THE MUSLIMS AROUND THE WORLD..soo just go and humiliate saudi muslim girls..its simply enough to slander the honor of all the muslims girls around the world…thats it END OF DISCUSSION
BTW I AM VERY WORRIED WHY ALL THESE EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS ARE SOO WORRIED WITH THE THINGS GOING IN OUR MUSLIM SOCIETY…WHY DONT THEY JUST LOOK AFTER THEMSELVES AND STOP THE HIGHEST DIVORCE RATE OF WORLD IN THEIR COUNTIRES (USA) and also stop the spreadable STDs and AIDS among ur communities…
1 REQUEST HEY WHY DONT U ALL EUROPEANS AND AMERICANS GO AND PEEK IN TO JEWS COMMUNITIES PERSONAL MATTERS AND PROBLEMS OF THEIR LIFES , THEIR WOMENS PROBLEMS , THEIR KIDS PROBLEMS…ohh i forgot u ppl cant coz they will kick ur candy asses lol they control ur country economy , media and main point ur countries GOVERNMENT TOO….
btw david dude ur not english at all coz i clearly looked at ur englsh grammer & spellings which completly sucks lol & to correct u let me tell u isreael was not born by purchasing it lol it was being captured by force since after the end of WW2 got it? from that time till now the conflict between palestenians & israelis is going on …..dude as u claim money works on everythng then y cant any country who doesnt have nuclear arms can buy it from those countries which possess nuclear arms ? Y CANT ANY GULF COUNTRIES WHO R FLTHY RICH & TOO ARE FRENDS OF USA CANT BUY ANY OR ATLEAST 1 SINGLE NUCLEAR OR ATOM BOMB FROM USA? answer me now david y money doesnt work here? lol
arab men cant please there women because they treat them like trash maybe you should send them to the U.S and the’ll come back much happier they might never want to go back
not all arab men the same and the reason is not they treat the woman like trash but they dont know how to please their women and the women have to tell her husband that she still not finish yet on bed and dont feel shy and for sorry we still have people they conceder talking abut sex is not allowed which is stupidness thinking ……wish everybody enjoy sex without complications …good day
just talking about sex sex sex….why dont people forget about sex and first consider occupying peace within our muslim countires like afghanistan , israel , lebnon , sudan , yemen lol we r having wars outside the houses and we r thinking about having peaceful sex thats just A WHOLE BULLSHIT IDEA…and like i said mohammed alabed i dont think ur muslim i say ur arab and ur name is arabic but i cannot say ur muslim unless until i see ur family background and like i said this topic is all about BULLSHIT ….instead of thinking how to develop our muslim soceity we talk about sex lol…………..talk about how to develop ur country according to islamic way , talk about to develop military arms like nuclear arms , atomic arms for the islamic countires military soo that not america or israel can take our lands…lol ARABS have BULL SHIT MINDS….they cannot develop a single gun by themselves shame on themm….
dear damot
sex is not number one of our life to discuss it but what we discuss here is social issue which can help the nation …you talk about building Islamic states and weapons….etc. dont forget you dealing with people and sexual problems and solving them kind of fighting…you dont know how much our society suffering from this point and helping them and make them comfortable and relax you make them serve the country well….its like food an instinct issue and everyone can help his society by the way he can some of people by education and some by weapons and some by helping people in their life is kind of helping the country…..
Hallo again!
From what I see here, some of you guys are totally unable to talk about sex. I’m not surprised. To talk about sex you should be open yourselves, and free your mind from narrow schematic conventions, to be able to speak openly, and to understand somebody else. In case of damot, I see that religion, politics and other dogmas has made his mind unable to understand any other idea, or even learn about somebody’s else opinion. But here’s even more – I think you, damot are afraid of talking about sex, and pour out all your frustration in complaining about politics instead, or trying to change the subject to a religion…
It’s very accurate remarque of Mohammed, that all societies probably suffer from such pint of view. Mabye if you please your ladies better, you would have more pleasure yourself and could be more innovative in other areas, like inventing weapons (but wish the invention of Arab world would go in different direction…)
Last thing to damot – don’t try to convince me that islam is better and christianity sucks, by referring to the bible, because I’m an atheist, and religious arguments doesn’t work for me, especially that I don’t see any connection to our issue here. The true is, that religious restrictions in sexuall behaviour doesn’t matter for most people. The example is my Arab muslim bf, who really enjoys anal sex with me.
I wish your mind to become more peaceful and open. Greetings to all the people in this forum;-)
suzane i agree with you 100%
Yes it is a fact that not only Arab but most men lack in understanding the women pleasure. Yes what david did was ethically and religiously wrong but the problem comes here that why should a women go outside for satisfaction. I am married person and being a Muslim i am a conservative person regarding sex and women but with time i realized that women satisfaction is very important to consider so i had to broaden my mind & made her comfortable in talking about her personal satisfaction. We share with each other and that has made our relationship more powerfull. What is required these days is men should free their mind a little bit and should talk to their wives about sexual happiness. There is no harm in it. Do not cross the religious boundaries but make her comfortable in this case. A happy & caring life partner is a happy and healthy life.
i agree with ali…and there is not to feel shy to sit with your husband or wife and discuss this issue because simply its issue of enjoyment and instinct and its very noral issue because our body designed to make sex not to hide it……….thanx
i agree with ali…and there is not to feel shy to sit with your husband or wife and discuss this issue because simply its issue of enjoyment and instinct and its very normal issue because our body designed to make sex not to hide it……….thanx
Hello Everyone,
I have been following this discussion but did not participate before. I think there is no question of ethics especially when it comes to the western civilized world. David was supposed to do what he did because that is what civilized people do. We love Arab and Muslim women. Do you have an idea why we went to Iraq? There were no weapons of mass destruction rather there were hot women for destruction. I hope you would have come across the porn videos our soldiers have made in Iraq. That is what we love to do. We are doing the same in Afghanistan. Then we are turning to Iran as Iranian chicks are really hot. I will join the US army if they enter Iran; I want to fuck a few of those hot chicks.
dear george
i agree there is a lot of hot women in Arab country and you can come as tourist and do sex but dont come as soldier to enjoy sex and destroy in same time its not civilized at all …..
George,
I think your post is really miserable and intended to piss all the Arab men off in this forum, and to support all the worst, negative stereotypes of “rotten western world without morals”… I am also a member of “western civilized world” but I definitely don’t consider it my value to travel across the world to fuck some horny married guys. You are describing it in a really insulting way. And if it’s true that American soldiers have made porn films while staying in Iraq, I assume it was closer to drunk porno rape, than to the sex-instruction of how to pleasure a woman… It’s just pathetic.
I agree with Ali, that it’s a question of whether a men or woman should seek for satisfaction outside marriage it he/she don’t get it from a partner. I think the first step should be discussing their needs, but for this, you need a mental change and deep sexual education.
Suzane, I don’t care if people don’t agree with me. I am impressed from what my soldiers have done in Iraq. I get much interested when I hear the sex stories from my colleague soldiers. I have watched a number of movies they made and I want to do the same one day. I want to fuck those horny girls while their relatives are watching.
george you are fu**ing bastard sick guy and you need help …..Best describe you is that you are an animal and you do not represent the American people, but you present the psycho crazy likes you and Fortunately, you are few…….FIND A MENTAL HOUSE AND JOIN IT BECAUSE SIMPLY THEY WILL TREAT YOU AND MAKE YOU HUMAN AGAIN BUT YOU CAN STAY ANIMAL IF YOU LIKE AND PEOPLE LIKE YOU ON THE WAY TO BE VANISHED ……
There’s no point getting angry while reading his post. Ther will always be an extreme posts in forum like this (damot is the example of the opposite site). George is the guy who probbly found this forum accidentally while seeking for Arab+women+porn in google… Am I right George?
The rule here should be respect for every person who shares opinion. I’d rather come baqck to more meritorious topic. How is it gooing with sexual education in Arab countries? Does it exist at all? Are there any NGO’s who work in this field? Any coments?
There’s no point getting angry while reading his post. There will always be some extreme posts in forum like this (damot is the example of the opposite site). George is the guy who probably found this forum accidentally while seeking for Arab+women+porn in google… Am I right George?
The rule here should be respect for every person who shares opinion. I’d be more hapy to come back to more meritorious topic. How is it going with sexual education in Arab countries? Does it exist at all? Are there any NGO’s who work in this field? Any comments?
suzane you right about george and lets forget this ZERO guy and focus in ur new topic its very good one to discuss and i agree to teach sex in schools beside the other subjects because arab society need this kind of education and there is no need to be shy because sex education will improve the sex instinct and make the person (he or she) feel more pleasure on bed…
Hi David,
Thank you very for satisfying your patient. Well done. Really u r the luckiest person in the word in getting an arab girl in the bed. The girl u got was absolutely Virgin because her hubby didn’t kiss her boobs, didn’t know anal sex, she didn’t suck him, he didn’t lick her pussy..u taught her everything….Why did u leave KSA? who will satisfy them..really i want one of them..can u help me..plz
sudeem why dont you go there and work instead of David and treat the women how to do sex……this discussion getting crazy but i think there must be some institute or school or something to teach people ( both gender ) sex either in school’s education books or some lectures of tutorials to sort out the sexual problems between husbands and sometimes i blames the men because they really need to learn more about sex to satisfy the wife or the woman who do sex with.so from my pinion the high education of sex makes the person satisfied and getting more pleasure and satisfy the other side…
#47I agree the discussion is getting crazy from time to time, mostly because of David’s post;-) But back to the topic. I think that sex education shouldn’t be limited to sex instructions. This can be learned from porn films. But this is all fake, don’t you see? In porn films you can mostly see women sucking dicks and screaming from pleasure whatever men do. It’s what guys would love to experience for real, but you will not achieve it just by imitating porn actors. Sex is not only positions and ways to reach orgasm. Sex is what happen between two different people. Men are not born with the knowledge of female body. They need to learn it. What should be taught in sex education according to me is firstly the basic differences between male and female sexuality, like the fact that for woman foreplay is as important as the actual penetration, and that minority of few women can come during simple sex, and that to bring her to the climax you should stimulate her clitoris. Why some adult men still don’t know it? And expect woman to enjoy their 1 minute foreplay and 5 minutes penetration?? Fast sex is nice from time to time, but is that it?? That’s one of the main problems according to many women.
And of course, the message to girls during sex education should be the awareness of their own needs, cause most women are still ashamed of expressing their needs. And above all, the message to everyone should be mutual understanding and respect. Amen.
thank you dear suzane and wish everybody learn more and more about sex …educate your self well and everything will be ok…….
Arab women have no guts. All they do is walk in veils and go around looking to the world from behind the holes. Yes, they want liberation, but the same men they hang out with will not give them their freedom, and will make their lives in their countries miserable. I understand that. But what I do not understand is that the same women do same things in other countries where there are no such laws. It can never explain me why there should be anyone in south beach florida to wear burkhas. Why? When the rest of the world is going to such degree of freedom to express their viewpoints, express body desires, makeups, perfumes, etc. why do these women not even expose their hair..Are hair supposed to be so beautiful that no one can even see them? It is totally insane.
hi im George Farah.Im from lebanon.i live and work in Jeddah,Saudia Arabia.I had sex with many many muslim women.All the muslim girls are sluts.Islam is a fake religion. Aiman Muna last girl i fucked so far.She is from Bangladesh,works in saudia Arabia airlines as a cabin crew,super slut.Muslim parys 5 times a days.goes to Makka for hajj on every week ends,then come back to my appartment for fucking.guyz believe me. [Removed by moderator] is her mobile number.u can also fuck her.All the cabin crew of saudia arabian air lines is a slut.each n every single person.
George Farah first of all mind your dirty tongue. Don’t dare to speak anything against Islam. I tell you George next time be very very careful otherwise you will never know who chopped you into million pieces. A persons personal character does not make a religion bad. If you are fucking them go and fuck them again but don,t dare to speak against Islam.
guys
what da fu** is goin on? this is not for religion discussion its for another subject and totally efferent in what u talking about so plz if u like to discuss our topic go on but if not there is a lot of forums u can join and say whatever u want…cheers
u fuckers and the fucked let muslims fuck the christians and hindus fuck the non hindus or any body fuck anyone…the quest and thirst is universal make love not war..make babies legal not the bastards…….
come down guys and be logic please or fu** off…
hi its really interesting web i have been going through. mulim guys are one of the most fucking bastards i have ever seen.. all they do in foreign countries is wanna fuck around but they talk a hell lot of being pious
TO EVERYONE WHO COMMENTED AND WANT TO COMMENT ON THIS DISCUSSION
I STARTED THIS DISCUSSION AND I WANT TO CLOSE BECAUSE THIS DISCUSSION WENT OUT OF ITS FRAME .SO PLEASE STOP THE COMMENTS AND THIS DISCUSSION IS CLOSED………………………..
THANK YOU VERY MUCH TO EVERYONE….
Moe Shadid
We are Arabs..We know How to handle our Girls..
@ “Life Thinking”
Who said that people living here don’t have girl friends? The world is moving man, and the new generation is westernised a little bit away from your conservative way of thinking/life.
And what Moe said is correct. The Egyptian females here are trapped between religion, fundamentalist, sexism, shame, traditions, etc…
The new generation is changing everything, mate!
thanx ahmed for your post
Sexuality is a crucial topic and it’s surprising that the traditional pre-modern middle eastern culture was way more expressive regarding sexual matters and the necessity for sexual satisfaction. However, we need to sexual satisfaction and modern distortions regarding sexual satisfaction with the really un-instinctual practices of fetishism and paraphilia are not the same thing and we need to present sexuality in it’s healthy context not a pursuit for hedonism regardless of what’s involved. I admire the author’s attempt at bringing up the discourse; but is this the right framework to do so? It seems all it’s done is invite “trollers” and “spammers” to spread foul rumors and tell foul personal stories about clearly fabricated situations (to act out their hatred for Arabs and wish to exploit Arab women for themselves). By foul I mean their indecent use of expression, not sexuality.
All allowing these cretins to air such tripe does is confirm the suspicions of people ignorant of the importance of sexuality, that Open discourse about the issue leads to moral deterioration. We must show that not only is healthy forms of sexuality and sexual satisfaction compatible with morality, it is crucial to it.
This isn’t the way to do it; and neither is the “Western Process” the alternative to achieving sexual balance, because Sexual Self Destructiveness is the Opposite extreme they present. Return to our roots. BALANCE
I wonder why no one in this thread could see the obvious discrepancy in David’s story that in Saudi Arabia women seeing a male physician is prohibited unless there’s urgent life/death necessity to do so. And women even during oral sex, don’t reach orgasm with “one lick”, and anal sex is unpleasant because of resistance of the sphincter to external penetration (I apologize for the detailed description).
If you do a google search of David’s Yahoo Email, you find he’s left comments on some adult website making similar comments regarding Pakistanis’. My reasonable and informed guess leads me to conclude, that “David” is some individual who has an interest in harassing and insulting Muslims and/or Middle Eastern peoples by claiming he’s defiled their women, which he clearly understands is deemed an assault against such a culture.
Dear Moe, I’m sorry this is my second post and I meant to mention something about this originally by hinting at it, but you should Moderate (not censor, moderate) Your comments, because clearly these types of threads invite people who have intentions on stirring problems. That prevents mature and honest discourse regarding sexuality. We need that discourse urgently, but if you allow such behavior to pervade, you’ll allow those with extreme views to prevail.
Thank you
- Mr. Sakzai
thanx a lot dear Thaumaturge …..i appreciate your opinion and thanx for the advice….PEACE
In Quran said that sexual satisfaction is a woman’s entitlement. arab women are not satisfied in bed, coz arab men are thing women sex & baby making machin. It is very bad thing I really condem it. I hope time can change those thing.
mohammed alabed
If u r sincere why dont u remove the comments of Bastard david? Remove it..
This forum is only for Middle Easterns … We dont want any bastard white Advice…
hi john
thanx for ur message and sorry brother i cant remove david because i cant control the blog….im just writer in this blog and cant remove anything….i know david is bad guy and non logical guy and sorry about his comments…..take care bro..
ok. here i am crying all day and feeling sorry about myself because my arab husband is not interested in having sex with me and is far from giving me oral sex. i read this entire thread and it made me laugh specially because of all the non-related topics that have been posted. i thought i had issues…? anyway, thanks for putting a smile on my face (kinda crazy how we can get off track so quickly about certain issues). but i don’t pay attention to offensive comments, so for all those who have stayed on track with the topic, thank you!
anyway, i am married to an arab as i said before, and i am american with spanish/italian decent. i felt crushed when my fairly newly wed husband of couple years tells me that sex is simply not something he sees as a priority in his life. when he does it, he does it for me he tells me. what i hear from that is that he is doing me a favor by having sex with me. i started researching and reading books as well as googling this problem and interestingly enough…. seems that the majority of the population has the same issues. whether arab, american, spanish, italian, etc…. i really thought the problem was because of his arab/muslim background that he was so nonchalant about the whole “sex” idea in our marriage. i know he loves me and i have kindly expressed to him what would please me but it seems that he does not have any interest. he will very seldom initiate anything sexual. i love him and want to work our marriage out. i am a healthy sexual person and open about expressing myself. and no, i am not a nympho. actually i this is one of the aspects of my personality that he really loved in the beginning. but now, it seems he is changing in that perspective. i please him orally many times even though i know i wont get anyting in return. i didn’t mind it, but i didn’t think that the entire act of having sex was completely out his radar. that worries me because intimacy is important in a marriage, for it to grow and be a healthy relationship in my opinion.
Any advise from anyone?? he is healthy and does get erect so i know it’s not a health issue. also, i’m pretty sure he isn’t cheating on me either. however, the thought of him maybe being gay has crossed my mind but 90% of me tells me that he is not. he does get aroused once we are having sex.
dear some times sex just instinct you have to listen to it and do it like food but does sex means everything in this life? our world we living now is crazy and abnormal and that’s sometimes make people stay away from sex …take care
Thanks for sharing valuable thoughts. Well, I share a very similar story with Specialk; the only difference is that I am a man. To be honest, I am frustrated about my sexual life but I still love my wife and can’t see her upset at any cost. I have tried my best to make her interested in sex but have not succeeded thus far. I have given her oral several times but she would not even give it to me in return happily…. She does have sex with me only for my sake which makes me feel like committing a sin……… Don’t know what to do. Please advise
dear khan
you wife situation has two meaning the first one your wife might be sexually cold or she is lesbian and forgive me for the word lesbian..i advise you to speak with her and let her be honest with you otherwise she need psychological help…
Dear Aabid, Thanks for the advice but I don’t think there is any issue of bein Lisbo. The other point seems to correct; she is very cold in sex. Well, I love her because she is very caring but my frustration regarding the sexual issue is growing….. I don’t know what to do..
hello, me again. thank you for your advise moe, you are definitely right about this world being a little nutty! maybe that is why every race has issues with this topic as i mentioned before. as far as khan, have you tried talking to your wife and being honest with her? if not, try it and put it in a way that wont hurt her feelings because you don’t want to become defensive. i’m currently doing that now and it’s work in progress but i’m hopeful. i initiated the conversation by making his favorite dish and he was open to the conversation. basically, i did something he would really appreciate before asking him for my needs. good luck!
i agree with specialk and khan remember that sometimes sexual issue are complicated and best you go to sexologist or someone who can do sex therapy…..but always remember that your wife situation is mentally and only specialists can solve it out…….hope you find out your problem …take care dear….
Hey every one,there are many things that need to be addressed:
-I Think there is a need for sexual education in the middle east.
-Middle eastern men (particularly Arab men) need to drop the whole man ego crap,they want oral sex from the female but they won’t give any to the girl. they just want her to open her legs so they can do their thing and its finished,done, no kissing…no foreplay.
-Last and this is a message to those cocky arab guys here,I have lived in Europe and America and have seen how young arab men loved to bang none-arab women particularly white western women…so don’t go crazy when some none-arab guy talks of having sex with arab women because it makes you the embodiment of hypocrisy.
I rest my case.
Hello, Thanks to Alabed and SpecialK for the valuable comments. What I feel is some health issue. I have given her oral and that is what she enjoys a bit but when it comes to normal sex, she won’t allow me happily. I just want a blessing occasion when my wife asks me to have it. I am well educated and broad minded. I can keep on going for even an hour but once I start it I feel I should finish it ASAP……. you know what I mean. And then I even regret at the end because it is painful for her.
dear khan
do you know there is a lot of marriage failed because of sex problems and i dont want you to be one of these …..but im sure step by step you and ur wife will fix the problem if you found the main reason and there is a lot of people can help you i wish i can give you more advice but im graphic designer not doctor …..wish you the best and ur wife as well and happy sex life …let us hear about you again when you get any progress ….take care
salam 3likom guys , we don’t have actually a sexual education in ower world !?
we have to do sexual education because sex is important for the brain and the body …god made this instinct for us to enjoy it because orgasm is the most enjoyment level our brain know until now. and by teaching sex in school is very important because we still primitive with sex education ..
i think mohammed alabed is a Zionist bastard ..That is why he is playing with arabs…get lost..
shon how you accuse me Zionist and my name is muhammed …….you have to be open mended and you have to see the world in other perspective.
mohammed alabed
R u joking Mr Zionist Bastard ??? Any one can use any name….Do u think all are idiots and u r the only intelligent person in the world????? I read ur appreciation on the comments of bastards David and Simran. Don’t teach me how to think..
shon
you are very fanatic man …and you like to discuss plz you dont have to say bad words just disscuss the mean topic….wish you the best
mohammed alabed
Think positively and progressively ….Don’t discuss unnecessary matters..What will u get by discussing this type of garbage things?? .Is this the main problem in Arab world??? Why don’t u talk about democracy in Arab wold?? Why don’t u discuss impact of imperialism in Middle east???. Do something good for society.
shon
i know there is a lot of problems in Arab world and we need people like you to talk about it and what we discussing here is one of the problems …….people must be feeling good and sexually satisfied to think well because sex issue is a problem in Arab world .
mohammed alabed
R u joking Idiot again? Its not a problem in arab world..Arabs know how to do it…They are very good in sex… Is there any one in the world who doesn’t know how to satisfy a girl????? May be u itself…Consult a psychiatrist asap…
shon
you are not objective and as told you you see the world from your point of view and close minded …i dont need doctor because i know how to satisfy the girls but there is a lot of men and women in arab world are not satisfied in sex and the numbers are very high according to statistics i did it by my self …….and please dont be extremist and angry you will judge people wrongly .
mohammed alabed
Mr Zionist Bastard Don’t teach Arabs how to do sex. I think ur father couldnt..that’s why u became a bastard …U and ur bastard father are extremists.. first fuck ur Zionist ass…
shon
you are very angry and i feel with you …..but as i told you before dont be extremist and understand people well before damning them or say bad think about them ….im with you i hate Zionism and i think they are bad people …….take care brother
i decided to post…i am happily married to an saudi arabian man i am mexican american and i must say he more than pleases me in a number of ways…he is the best i have ever had. He performs oral on me willingly and its amazing and we go into deep foreplay. We have a very open sex life. I just wanted to come to the defense of arabs and say that obviously not all arabs are bad in bed!
The solution is to leave islam and marry a kafir. We are romantic, caring and we know a lot about foreplay, orgasms etc. Enlighten yourself and leave islam, the religion of fear & terror that keeps you in the dark. Deep down you know it’s true. You know you want it but are afraid.
Fred you are a bastard. How dare you speak about Islam. Fuck your enlightenment. I now how enlighten you people are. Remain in your limits. I request the group moderator to stop these kinds comments on any religion and keep it a discussion under the current topic.
@Fred
Too much Fox News eh? Leave Islam for a better sex life? How cringeworthy. For your information, Islam encourages foreplay and having intercourse is a gift and a reward in our religion. I thought to ignore you but I feel sorry for your ignorance.
people please if anyone want to discuss the religion issue its not the right forum and go to find forum about religion ….and for mara im happy for you and you are lucky but there is a lot of arab women are not happy or lucky ……what i want to say to arab women to be open minded and discuss it with your husband or your boyfriend or you will be stuck in same problem ….
how interesting that a simple sexology discussions turns so distracted, focused on religion (save some seemingly racist comments), as if all the ways lead to rome.
I don’t watch Fox News. I’m not a christian but an ATHEIST.
90% of Egyptian women confessed NEVER having had an orgasm.
I see you posted from Somalia, where women have to undergo painful genital mutilation.
But you are most probably a muslim male disguised as a female to claim you are treated well.
Islam doesn’t consider women well. The qur’an considers women filthy and a man has to wash himself after touching them.
Qur’an (5:6) – “And if ye are unclean, purify yourselves. And if ye are sick or on a journey, or one of you cometh from the closet, or ye have had contact with women, and ye find not water, then go to clean, high ground and rub your faces and your hands with some of it” Men are to rub dirt on their hands if there is no water to purify them following casual contact with a woman (such as shaking hands).
Saudi women are also VERY unsatisfied with muslim men.
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im general i think the arab world have problem with this issue
@Fred
Typical. You take just some part of the verse. This is the complete verse:
O ye who believe! When ye rise up for prayer, wash you faces, and your hands up to the elbows, and lightly rub your heads and (wash) your feet up to the ankles. And if ye are unclean, purify yourselves. And if ye are sick or on a journey, or one of you cometh from the closet, or ye have had contact with women, and ye find not water, then go to clean, high ground and rub your faces and your hands with some of it. Allah would not place a burden on you, but He would purify you and would perfect His grace upon you, that ye may give thanks.
As Muslims we must wash ourselves before we stand up in prayer to pray, man and woman. After going toilet and having sexual intercourse as Muslims we have to purify ourselves. If you read the explanation of this verse, you will gather that this applies to both men and women. If a woman had sexual contact with her husband, they both have to purify themselves with water, if there is no water, they may use sand.
You ignorance kills me. You take one verse of the Quran and read it out of context.
Also typical of you to bring up female genital mutilation to a Somali. It is an old tradition and is dying away.
I am a man in disguise? Right. Good Bye.
@ Mariam
Typical. The “Out Of Context” rhetoric.
The verse you typed out still implies that it is contact with women that is dirty, and that rubbing your face with sand or dirt is cleaner than touching a girl.
Moreover, the qur’an still has MANY anti-women verses.
Do you want me to quote ALL of them?
More of a rational rant now. How is sex dirty for a prayer? Sex is a MATERIAL act and what you consider ‘unclean’ is what you would believe Allah made in the first place i.e. all the organic material you are covered with after sex (not going into details of what all) How can any organic stuff, made of elements that are not dirty i.e. Carbon, Nitrogen, Oxygen, Hydrogen be considered ‘impure’?
This is simply totally IRRATIONAL and typical of a belief in any stupid religion like islam or christianity or judaism. (Yes I said judaism too so you cannot accuse me of being a Zionist Jew)
Allah has created two types of human:Men and Women.
Men and Women have equal rights describing the Holy Qur’an. So, I think women have equal pleasure as men do when they meet in sex.
It is true that women get pleasure in all sex.
Now, I strongly say that muslim women should have sex with other men who were not married to them , masturbation or with sex-toys because these are prohitied in Islam.
thank you mohammed washeef
but i think man and woman free to do sex whatever they like and whenever they like ….sex is pleasure and instinct the human must practice it ….