Are there any red lines in social media?
Today, I read a rather thought-provoking article at TechCrunch by Paul Carr. I encourage you to read it first before continuing with this post. Paul’s article reminded me of an incident that most of us can never forget: the stoning of Du’a Khalil Aswad, which you can read about here. Videos and photos of her being stoned were viewed millions of times, but few of those times did people notice the troubling fact that not a single man from the dozens of people who were filming the incident came to her aid, or uttered a word in her favor while the crowd was shouting “kill her, kill her!”
Some watched, and let it happen, others filmed it, but no one helped her. She just layed there, getting stoned, and eventually died from those wounds, while people went home to upload the video into YouTube (and was that to help her, or to get more subscribers?)
I’m not here to question the intentions of those who took videos, but instead I wish to raise a discussion about Paul Carr’s point. Are there any red lines in social media?
When taking a video of an incident like this, it can be so effective and helpful beyond what most people expect. For example, Du’a's video alone did wonders to the activist movements dedicated to eliminating honor crimes and helping victims at risk. If no one had taken that video, Du’a would be largely unknown, amongst the millions of victims whose stories are to this day unexposed or forgotten, and there would be no major outcry calling for justice and an end to honor crimes.
That is the positive side of sharing the video: the awareness it raises, the level of activism it can inspire, and eventually the action it can lead to.
The negative side is what was implied earlier: the fact that these people filmed her, but no one stepped in and at least attempted to save her life. How did she feel? How would you feel? If you were getting stoned and all you can see in your last moments of life, is people pointing their mobile phones at you, snapping away at your death, without helping, without stopping anyone from attacking you?
To try and define your stance on the responsibility of using social media, the question to ask yourself is this – which would you be most disgusted by when watching this video?
1) The fact that a young girl was getting brutally stoned to death?
2) The fact that no one from the huge crowd attempted to help her?
What in your opinion is more terrifying?
I am in favor of documenting these incidents, and definitely in favor of using social media for causes like these. But we need limits. What are they? Where is our humanity indeed when “sharing” comes before taking action in an urgent situation, when someone’s life is at serious risk?
I think Paul used the wrong example in his article when concluding it with the video of Neda Agha Soltan’s tragic death, requesting to know why the person opted to take a video instead of helping her. I agree with what this commenter correctly pointed out, and conclude that the person who shot the video didn’t necessarily do anything wrong:
People were crowded around her trying to help. Entering the equation would actually be not helpful (read: hurting) in that case, unless the camera person can push everyone aside and perform ‘magic powers’ on her. The camera served to capture critical events that informed people in the outside world — outside the gates of Iran’s media lockdown — of reality. People should be praising the camera person, who, in fact, helped a lot.
This I can agree with. No lines were crossed here, in my opinion. There was nothing the person can do except to make the world aware of the grave injustice that took place.
But, what about Du’a? No one was crowding her to help. People crowded her either to watch, take videos, or to simply join the violence and stone her themselves.
Personally, I think that’s where the red line is.

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Thanks for the good article. Paul has driven an important point, and you pulled a perfect dimension.
I want to stop and clarify something, from my POV;
It’s one of 3;
1 – The person who was filming that was actually proud of what was happening for the Glory of Islam over the infidels, like Du’a. (Black Comedy totally welcome.)
2 – The person who was filming that was feeling as horrible as s/he can feel, even more than us, the spectators because simply they were in action, they wanted to help indeed, maybe they cried?! Maybe they suffer from a psychological disturbance until this very day which I’m making my comment in. Maybe?! But the fact, the obvious fact, that they were too scared to help her, because the outcome would be stoning of 2 victims, not 1.
3 – They were neither 1, nor 2, and they were nosing around for Channel’s subscribers, like you’ve mentioned, or maybe for money from this short movie sales to private news agencies, and websites.
Enough said
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It’s a big and frustrating question you are Asking Esra’a!!
First I have to assert that both acts are equally brutal…stoning and using the stoning !!!
What is so called “honor killing” is not more that a sadistic crime against the victim while the real criminal is us, all of us !!! I just wonder how can a man, any man, not do, but also boast of having sex with women and the very next day slaughters his sister or daughter for “loosing her virginity”!! What a sadistic mentality! the hell with this mentality that puts the honor between the legs and legitimizes killing the victim twice!! When are we going to wake up and see how hypocritic and sadistic we, men, are!!! Who kills for honor is not a man but a blind beast and honorless… its a pagan habit that only paganists still believe in!!! Why we are so sadistic????
However this story reminds me of a Jerusalemite friend, a journalist, who couldnt stand Israeli soldiers battering a Palestinian girl in the second Intifada, and instead of wasting time capturing the scene, he rushed to help the girl…. but he too was battered, his camera was smashed and imprisoned for 8 months for deterring the IOF soldiers …. and as a beginner journalist, he lost his job too after spending his time in jail !!!
The journalist, any journalist, is a human in the first place…. but still who is taking shots for fun, or to capture the moment of the human suffering has no heart to know what the human suffering is…. and there are plenty of such beasts !!!
Sami, the bedouin.
this discussion remebers me of France24 interviewing a palestinian journalist who used to provide videos, photos and information during Israeli invasion of Gaza. He said the most disturbing moment of his life was when a palestinian civilian got shot. He had just 2 options: try to help him, or document the moment. He said that ‘with eyes full of tear, i decided to record the event.’
There are lots of examples in the field of social media, bouncing around the boundry between ethical and non-ethical choice. Sometimes we should be practical. Sometimes judging the whole thing from a merely practical point makes us feel guilty.
a rather difficult question you made.
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This reminds me of this popular image of a child in a war-torn Sudanese village, the picture was taken by a South African photographer, who did win an award for the picture. He killed himself shortly after this incident out of guilt. People kept taunting him (you could have saved her, you could have saved her).
As an aspiring journalist, I find this questions puzzling. I think being the person I am , I would go ahead and save the child or person. Not all journalists are going to do so, because this picture could save so many other children. It’s such a difficult question and the answer to it is always personal.
I think the men looking at the girl getting stoned didn’t want to help her, but by filming it, they did raise awareness about honor killings. Let’s not give them any credit though!
Puzzling topic Esra’a!
If you’re in the crowd, watching this honor killing, you would realize that the passions and of the crowd have been awakened, and you would be taking your life in your hands if you were to interfere. Fear sets in, and we will most often protect ourselves instead of helping others. We are a selfish creature. There are few heroes among us.
As for the video taker, if we give him or her the benefit of the doubt, we would say that there is some value in allowing the world to see what is going on. Perhaps people somewhere will wake up and work to put an end to this brutal form of punishment. So I wouldn’t necessarily blame the video takers, even though, truth be told, many of them shot the scene for some perverse sense of satisfaction along the lines of, “Better her than me.”
There is much evil in the world, perhaps more so than good. We have convinced ourselves of things which make no sense. We believe wholeheartedly in the nonsensical, and if we continue in our ways, we are all doomed to pay a heavy price, a price that will be exacted on a massive scale.
We owe it to ourselves to step out of who we happen to be, and to let go of some of what we believe, in favor of what makes sense. Instead of jumping to false belief and rationalizing why we’re right, why not use rationality in the first place to arrive at what is worth believing in?
There is no honor in honor killing. Instead of assuming the role of dumb-ass spectators, why don’t we do something about it, and teach our kids the stupidity of killing our own? Yes, the world has to be made aware, but to what end? Make them aware, and then make the case for us to change our ways.
You made some good points there. I think most people will agree